Lady Gagas Judas is "Evil" No!

As we all know Lady Gaga released Judas not to long ago but there is one girl in particular who made a youtube video that i wanna shed some light on. She in the video starts her argument off with Judas is Jesus and as we all know thats not true Judas betrayed Jesus. She said some pretty offensive things including that people of a different sexuality are going to hell this girl doenst know what shes talking about in the bible it says god loves everybody even if you have a different sexuality. I personally love lady gaga she has some amazing messages in her songs like born this way is telling everybody to be happy with who they are, she makes some points that were completely irrevelant she even said god and jesus were the same thing but they arent, she is a catholic and yet shes saying that sex is a sin and you cant get into heaven if you have sex? Well we all have to have sex sometime thats what keeps the population alive and i wanna say im not gonna go to hell for listening to lady gaga yet why is she saying that we all will? who is she to determine who goes to heaven and hell? I was extremely offended by this video my cousin is bisexual and here she is claiming to be a devout catholic and she doesnt even know one fact from the bible not to mention shes slamming people that have done nothing wrong other than choose to love somebody of the same sex? Girl you really need to get your facts straight im sorry but before you make a youtube video about a widely supported person you might wanna actually read your bible and stop trying to make it look like you are because if you were you would have known that God forgives you no matter what thats why he sent his only son to die on the cross for us was so our sins would be forgiven,as well as saying judas jesus and god are all one person they so obviously are not. Lady gaga is an amazing artist i fully support her Go Gaga Little monsters forever!

You Cant put a face on an eating disorder. But you can Face Them.

"Convinced herself hell come back to her when shes perfectshes just a girl who doesnt know shes already Beautiful for everything thats wrong in life looks in the mirror to criticize shed rather be beautiful than alive." Deadly Beauty

Its another growing problem that you never really hear about but know it exists it happens to men and women alike if a girls mother sister ect suffers from it shes twice as likely to get it herself what is this thing that plagues us? If you guessed anorexia you are right.

Anorexia is typically seen in teens who have a strong fear of being fat even though the person is a typically healthy weight, eating disorders affect many people in the world and its when a person is starving themselves until they become thinner than is normal or even healthy. They will refuse to eat in front of others or just refuse to eat anything at all. People suffering from anorexia think they are overweight even after they get really thin. These teens dont realize what they are doing to themselves and their bodies what causes anorexia? Good Question, many think it stems from the person physcologically telling themselves that they are fat maybe after intense bullying or some type of abuse along with anorexia may come diet pill and laxative abuse but studies show that in sports with revealing uniforms the risk of anorexia is twice as high because these young people are pressured to stay thin. So who is at risk? Belive it or not girls as young as six and women as old as 76! It can also affect pregnant women. The media tends to be a major factor as well as peer pressure Anorexia can cause rapid changes is behavior such as increased isolation,moodiness,and depression. People with an eating disorder tend to see a distorted version of themselves in the mirror and many refuse to look into the mirror at all. Many will cook meals for their families and then refuse to eat any of it themselves blaming it on not being hungry or perhaps a late lunch 60% of teens and adults who receive treatment will recover but 20% percent will continue to struggle with eating disorder issues, Belive it or not anorexia is one of the leading causes of teen death in America some find it hard to belive that a girl who is literally starving herself to death can avoid being caught by her parents but studies show that a girl can also hide the fact that shes nine months pregnant forcing her to dump the baby in a trashcan at least 1,000 people diagnosed each year with an eating disorder die after obesity and asthma anorexia is the most common disease in females ages 15-24. Why is this happening? The Media, plain and simple.Many websites show models as being stick thin and medical professionals worry that the media is glamourizing a deadly illness, 80% of women are dissatisfied with their appearence 42% of 1st-3rd grade girls want to be thinner and 81% of 10 year olds are afraid of getting fat 51% of 9 and ten year olds feel better about themselves if they are on a diet 46% of 9-11 year olds are sometimes or very often on diets. Did you know: Anorexia has the highest fatality rate than any other psychiatric disorder people with an eating disorder are twice as likely to die from even the smallest suicide attempt than a person without an eating disorder. So what exactly are the causes? Nobody knows for sure but one things for sure the eating disorder rate is on the rise we need to help these people. Be A Hero Save Lives Stop Anorexia!

Hate is Jealousy in Action

"Poverty stole your golden shoes but it didnt steal your laughter heartache came to visit me but i knew it wasnt everafter we will fight not out of spite for someone must stand up for whats right cause where theres a man who has no voice there ours shall go singing in the end only kindness matters"

What does the above qoute mean to you? To me it represents a young woman who is standing up for those who nobody else will defend and this woman has a strong beleif in god and when things start to go wrong she turns to the lord its a song by Jewel called hands its used for many things one of them being rachaels challenge one of the first victims in the Columbine High School shootings this all relates to the worlds biggest problem. Bullying those boys were bullied so much they turned around and shot up their school killing many people. Rachael belived that a little kindness would go a long way and went out of her way to make somebody feel less alone she knew she would die young and she did, but what i dont understand is if she can go out of her way to be nice to somebody why cant everybody else? We hear about murders and stuff everyday on the news but nobody ever talks about bullying are we all so afraid to dress this growing problem
? are we afraid that our own children are bullies? or do we just not care because bullycide is a problem why should a young girl be made to feel like she needs to change something about herself just to fit in? its pathetic that these kids are picking on their peers and making them feel ugly or inferior when in reality the bullies are no better than the victims i think everybody should go out of their way to show a little kindness to somebody else if you see somebody being bullied dont just watch step in and stand up for the victim in Alyes words Think before you say things it might save....lives! and it will imagine if everybody said nothing but kind things to each other this world would be a better place why should we always be made to feel inferior? Why are young women feeling like to get a guy to notice them they have to sex it up a little bit? Because the media is focusing on sex and abuse nowdays girls are becoming sexually active younger and younger my moms friend has a thirteen year old that has a baby. A BABY at thirteen thats crazy. Sometimes i wish i could go back to a time when things were simple back when sex wasnt important and everybody waited till marraige instead of giving it up so early ive had alot of guys try to pressure me into sex but only you can be strong and say no. On another note whats with all the jealousy in school i dont get it.

"Hate is jealousy in action"

"Aint is funny how a moment could just change your life and you dont wanna face whats wrong or right aint it funny how fate can play a part"

The world today

"Of a nation thats starve is for salvation but clothing is the closest approximation to god and he only knows that drugs are all we know of  love I wish i could save her from all their dellusions oh the confusion everyday we starve while we eat white bread and beer and instead of a handshake or hug we spill the pills and sweep them under the rug"

Alright so my best friend just found out today that she has genital herpes which she got from her ex who i dated before she did but i didnt sleep with him thankfully but i can only imagine what shes going through right now shell have this the rest of her life it can be treated sure but now she has this disease and can infect fture partners if shes not careful dont get me wrong shes still my best friend and always will be but theres still that fear that i can get it which is totally irrational but its things like this that make me glad to be a virgin i dont have to worry about getting any kind of std or sti and i plan to have my husband tested when i get married its just crazy how life can change in an instant and sadly many young men and women dont realize all the risks they are taking when they become sexually active and many wind up pregnant or with an std or something its not even just that there are so many emotional risks involved sure im not innocent ive messed around but ive never taken it that far and i know that im not ready for all of that im only 18 my best friend is only a coupke weeks older and she has herpes i love her and will always be here for her no matter what but all im saying is think before you ake a big risk such as becoming sexually active sex is supposed to be shared with the one person your planning to spend the rest of your life with. Sex is a treasure dont give it up to soon. Since finding out she has herpes my best friends current boyfriend is being extremely distant with her he wont hold or comfort her its like their strangers again i really feel for her shes the closest thing to a sister i have shes an amazing friend and i plan to be around for her to talk to while she goes through this were having our annual girls night tonight but any advice for her?

"My little sister is a zombie in a body with no soul or role she has learned to play in a world today where nothing else matters" Jewel Little sister

Bullying, an epidemic?

It happens everyday in school at work in the community even online its affecting the youth of america and suicide rates are higher than ever! what is this problem might you ask? BULLYING! Yup i said it bullies are tormenting people everywhere now and many victims of bullying feel they have nowhere to turn to stop the abuse so they turn to destructive things such as cutting many even choose suicide after dealing with it for so long. So what is being done about bullying? Sadly not much many adults simply choose to overlook it instead of confronting the problem directly, it is beleived that bullying stems from a low self esteem themselves and because of this they act out on others to try and make themselves feel better and the truth is it doesnt. Many bullies think what theyre doing cant cause any harm when in reality it does it can dramatically effect self image, just ask Alye Pollack the eight grader who made a youtube video after dealing with bullying and not knowing where to turn she used her voice in a powerful way which let her bullies know hey what did i ever do to you, the video was so popular it made it on cnn and it addresses a very big issue many young girls are the victims called names such as a bitch or fat ect they start to believe it and when they look at themselves thats what they see instead of a beautiful intelligent young woman, even alye herself said she wasnt a cutter but was close the question is, How far are we gonna let this go before it turns into something bigger than us america, are we to wrapped up in our own selfish selfs that were not paying attention to what our children are doing? When you hear your teenage son or daughter talking rudley about a classmate or witness them bullying another do you just blame it on their age and say theyll grow out of it or do you actually do something? Do you teach your kids that its wrong to bully, or do you yourself bully others and not realize that your child is twice as likely to bully another if you condone it maybe one day they may even bully you, America stand up and fight this do we really want our children to be bullied to the point that they snap and act out whether it be on themselves or others like what happened at Columbine High School? Those boys were bullied each and everyday until they had enough they took guns and shot up the school before later killing themselves do we really want that again? Maybe you think your son or daughter cant be a bully but im here to tell you that they can, it only takes one time to start an epidemic so why not take a stand against it? Bullying is harmful and in most states illegal its slanderous demeaning and downright hurtful as a victim myself i can tell you its really damaging to the self esteem and i applaud Alye Pollack for having the courage to stand up and say shes being bullied and wants it to end many suffer in silence lets do something america one person can be a bully or they can be a friend which will you choose? To stand by as somebody is bullied to no end and chooses to commit suicide or will you step in and prevent further damage stop bullycide america its a growing problem just ask alye herself or even elizabeth after hearing their stories i realized this is much bigger than just my town this happens everyday to real people it needs to be stopped. Be Heros Save Lives help stomp out bullying you just might start an epidemic.